It’s like
riding a bike…. Road trips that is. I
remember when we drove Route 66 it felt like a dream. So much distance to drive, so much to see
from landmarks (natural and man made) and so much to experience and digest.
Now we’re
on the road again, kind of like a warm up for the big trip this year. Our first day on the road couldn’t have gone
better. It was tempered by where we
stayed our first night. It isn’t bad
but… just not that good.
The road is
a completely different world. Road
trippers are generally helpful and polite.
Open to conversations with strangers and sharing not only information
but suggestions. Sometimes a theme
develops for no particular reason. One
can generally pick them out on the road; a custom van, clothes on hangers in
the back seat, and, most obvious, out of state license plates.
As we drove,
one of the subjects we discussed was retirement. When we stopped at a rest area in Ohio,
MaryAlice greeted an elderly woman cleaning the restroom. The exchange went something like this: Woman: ‘How are you?’ MA ‘Great, how are you?’ Woman: ‘Great!!! I am 82 and going to retire beginning April!’ MA:
‘That’s wonderful! Woman: ‘I’m looking forward to it. MA:
You deserve it! We travelers really
appreciate your work.’ From my
perspective, in my work-a-day world, most people would never have been so
open. But on the road with travelers,
communication of goals, accomplishments and life seem to come more easily.
Later we
toured the Jim Beam Distillery. Our tour
guide was a woman about our age. Turns
out she’s a retired Special Ed. Teacher.
She’s extremely proud of her one BA and two Master’s degrees. Yet she is
very happy to be so active giving tours and enjoying life.
The final
cap on our lesson for the day… as we were purchasing souvenirs: A woman (probably in her late 40s) was going
to cash us out but said something about having to leave for class. A younger woman came over and said ‘Go ahead
to your classes! I am so proud of you
that you have gone back to school! I’ll cash these folks out!’ After the student left, our cashier
commented that she knows she could also go back to school, but she’s just not
focused on education and if one is not
committed to something it’ll most likely end in failure.’
We agreed
with her and then said that her time will come.
She agreed, and we hit the road.
Looking
back at all this it seems as though our theme for the day was retirement,
education and commitment.
It gave me
something to reflect upon.
Now on to
more of the same!!
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